What to Give Someone You Just Started Dating for Their Birthday
A birthday can arrive at an awkward point in a new relationship. You like this person and want them to feel remembered, but you may not know their tastes very well—or whether an expensive or romantic gift would feel like too much. The safest choice is usually a modest, specific gift based on something they have mentioned, paired with a relaxed birthday plan or thoughtful card. Aim for a gift that says, “I’ve been paying attention,” rather than one that tries to define how serious the relationship has become. If you have only been on a few dates, a favorite treat, interesting book, small hobby-related item, flowers, or planned birthday outing may be enough. If you have been seeing each other regularly for several weeks or months, you can make the gift a little more personal while still keeping it proportionate to the relationship. The Right Gift Should Feel Thoughtful, Not Intense In an established relationship, a birthday gift can celebrate your shared history. When you have just...